As a New Yorker by choice, rather than birthright, I’ve always had mixed feelings about the city’s somewhat incessant need to define its residents as either “natives” or “transplants.” Which isn’t to say that I don’t respect the unique blend of street savvy and odor tolerance that it takes to actually grow up in the Big Apple, but rather feel that the city isโmust be, reallyโa byproduct of its residents in their entirety, not merely those who happen have owned Upper West Side co-ops since the late 1970s.
Still, as a dutiful transplant, I’d like to think that I’ve made a decent effort to avail myself of all that New York has to offer, not only in the sense of museums and landmarks, but also in history and culture. Of course New York’s more famous progenyโWoody Allen comes to mind, as do the Rockefellers and Roosevelts after whom the entire city seems to be namedโmaintain reputations steeped in NYC charm even as their exports reach the country as a whole. But there are a whole host of other peopleโfrom politicians to playwrights to restaurant proprietorsโabout whom a Maryland native like myself can be lambasted for not knowing, should they come up in conversation this side of the GW Bridge. To this day, not a month passes without my stumbling into some social faux pas whereby I reveal that I’ve never heard of Robert Moses, learned about Ed Koch or read anything by Gay Talese (for the record, only the last of these is still true.)
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